One of the most important rules of online safety is keeping your personal information private. Never share your full name, home address, phone number, school name, or passwords with anyone you meet online, even if they seem friendly. Photos can also reveal personal information — a picture of your house could show your address, and a school uniform could identify where you go to school. Even messages that seem private can be screenshot, shared, or seen by people you didn’t intend. A good rule of thumb is to never post anything online that you wouldn’t want displayed on a giant billboard in your town.
Understanding Cyberbullying
Cyberbullying is bullying that happens through digital devices like phones, computers, and tablets. It affects about 1 in 5 middle and high school students and can include mean messages, embarrassing photos, rumors spread online, or being deliberately left out of online groups. Cyberbullying can be even more harmful than in-person bullying because it can follow victims everywhere — into their homes, their bedrooms, and every moment they check their phone. Unlike schoolyard bullying, hurtful content posted online can spread to a huge audience in minutes and can be almost impossible to completely delete.
What to Do About Cyberbullying
If you experience cyberbullying, the most important thing to know is that it is not your fault and you do not have to handle it alone. Do not respond to the bully because responding often makes the situation worse and gives the bully the reaction they want. Take screenshots of the bullying messages or posts as evidence before anything gets deleted. Block the person on whatever platform they are using to contact you. Then tell a trusted adult — a parent, teacher, or school counselor — who can help you report the behavior to the platform and get the harmful content removed.
Spotting Scams and Phishing
Phishing scams are fake messages designed to trick you into giving away your personal information, like passwords or account numbers. These messages might look like they come from a real company, a game you play, or even a friend whose account was hacked. Legitimate organizations will never ask for your password or sensitive personal information through email, text, or social media messages. Watch out for messages that create urgency, like “Your account will be deleted in 24 hours!” — this pressure is designed to make you act before you think. When in doubt, do not click any links — instead, go directly to the website by typing the address into your browser or ask a trusted adult for help.
Everything you do online leaves behind a trail called your digital footprint, and much of it lasts forever. Social media posts, comments, photos, videos, and even searches can be saved, screenshot, or archived even after you delete them. Teachers, coaches, college admissions officers, and future employers may look at your online presence when making decisions about you. Before posting anything, ask yourself: “Would I be comfortable if my parents, my teacher, or my future boss saw this?” Your digital footprint starts being built the first time you go online, so it is important to make it a positive one from the very beginning.
Being Kind and Respectful Online
Good digital citizens treat others with the same respect online that they would show in person. Before posting a comment or sending a message, read it out loud and think about how the other person will feel when they read it. Remember that there is a real person with real feelings behind every screen name and profile picture. Do not share embarrassing photos or private information about other people, even as a joke, because it could hurt them deeply. Standing up for someone being bullied online — by reporting the behavior or sending a supportive message — is just as important as standing up for someone in the hallway at school.
Not everything you read, see, or hear online is true, and part of being a good digital citizen is learning to tell fact from fiction. Before sharing a story or claim with others, check if it comes from a reliable source like a well-known news organization, a government website, or an educational institution. Be suspicious of stories that seem too shocking or too good to be true, because they are often designed to get clicks rather than inform you. Look for the same information reported by multiple trustworthy sources before believing it. By checking facts before sharing, you help stop the spread of misinformation and make the internet a more trustworthy place for everyone.